Three. (Impact)

“I get by with a little help from my friends…”

Although I’ve been considered an “adult” for several years now, I don’t think I truly became an adult until this past summer. These last few months have been life changing. It’s amazing how my entire existence has shifted because of one decision I decided I was finally strong enough to make. I recognize that the maturity I’ve developed is of my own doing. However, I’ve been fortunate enough to be surrounded by amazing people who have impacted me more than they will ever know. Their love, encouragement, and support have made this “growing up” process so much more bearable.

My best friend since our Catholic schoolgirl days. You’ve witnessed my horrendous fashion choices, silly crushes, and the most intense ups and downs of my life. We’ve watched each other grow and and change from dramatic teenagers to strong young women. Although we don’t see each other as often as we used to, we’ve somehow managed to stay close friends, and are always able to pick up right where we left off. I’ve always been able to count on you through the tough times, and this summer was no exception. You’re the one I turn to when I need someone who cares, understands, and empathizes. I’m so glad we’ve remained close over the years, and I hope our friendship continues. (We still have each other’s weddings to witness, and then some!)

The first real friend I made in college. We’ve only been friends for a couple years, but I feel like I’ve known you forever. It was quite surprising to learn that the girl sitting behind me in English 46B could practically be my twin! We’ve had our heart-to-hearts, our political arguments, our “let’s plan a trip to/take a class in/make a day of ____” moments. (We still need to accomplish quite a few of those!) I can always count on your honesty, your insight, and your blunt sense of humor to get me through the tough stuff. Two brainy Asian chicks with inquiring minds and a hell of a lot to say…our friendship will never be boring!

My favorite gamer, and the most amazing guy I’ve ever met. Meeting you was life-changing…the best thing to happen to me in quite some time. You’ve been my backbone during such an intense time in my life. I always look forward to our daily never-ending phone calls, our sushi/indie flick dates, and endless hours of hanging out and playing video games. You always seem to know what I need without me needing to say a word. The connection we have is so rare and hard to find; I didn’t even believe such a connection existed until you came into my life. Your love and friendship have truly been a blessing, and while I hope we continue to be in each other’s lives, I will never forget this past summer. Regardless of any labels we may give to “us” or one another, you are the one who taught me what it means to truly love someone, and how amazing it feels to be loved. Everything I’ve ever wanted, I’ve found in you.

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